Pass items around the table counterclockwise. (That’s from your left to your right, for those raised with a digital clock). If there is a large platter of something . . . say, turkey . . . hold the platter for the person on your right, while he/she uses the serving utensils to move the turkey from the platter to his/her plate. Always turn the serving utensils toward the person who will be using them next.
If someone asks you to pass an item, you may not intercept the pass and help yourself. Remember to say, “Please pass the . . .” and “Thank you” when it arrives. Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
From the Culture and Manners Institute at http://www.cultureandmanners.com
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